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Mariel Hemingway Tells Me to Stop Multi-Tasking Print E-mail
Written by David Batstone   

I shared a delightful breakfast with Mariel Hemingway recently. I asked to interview her for Worthwhile magazine about her deep connection with yoga and how it might help us become less stressful, more peaceful and creative at work.

A scant three months after her grandfather, author Ernest Hemingway, took his own life, Mariel came into the world. She seemed destined to remain in the shadow of her famous grandfather as well as her older sister, model Margaux Hemingway. But Mariel quickly made her own mark as an actress. She is best remembered on screen in Woody Allen's Manhatten, for which she earned an Oscar nomination.

In 2003, Mariel wrote her own memoir - Finding My Balance. It is an honest telling of her journey toward finding stability in her less-than-balanced family. She thrives all the same thanks in part to yoga. Today, she owns a yoga studio in Sun Valley, Idaho, and when she has time instructs classes herself.

Mariel began our conversation telling me that yoga has a very gentle way of reconnecting us to our better self so that we gain a fresh perspective on life. I quickly admitted to her that I'm not sufficiently flexible in limb (the metaphor of a dead plant comes to mind) to enjoy yoga. She let me know that was the #1 lame excuse that stops people from finding an important tool for personal growth...ouch!

"The beauty of yoga is it can be anything you want it to be," she gently explained. "Done regularly, it will make your body incredibly fit. But you can use if for stress reduction. There is no way to do yoga without calming down."

The goal, she added, was to stay "present" in the middle of a chaotic lifestyle. I was curious how staying "present" would make me feel any less calm. Mariel admitted that the world of work was often unhealthy. We have "become obsessed with the short term - you must do 20 things at once. In a fit of heresy to the modern workforce, she said, "Multi-tasking does not lead to wellness."

Since I find it hard that anyone could be successful at work these days without multi-tasking, I pushed back. So did she: "Yoga helps us to see that there is actually more to a day than we realize." When we are scattered and driven by circumstances - rather than taking control of ourselves - our creativity lacks focus. We waste time and become ineffective.

I remarked that meditation helps me focus in a similar way. She immediately agreed, noting that silent meditation is an important part of her yoga practice. "Have you ever heard a great speaker?" she asked. "They take time, because the space between sentences carries as much force as the actual words they speak."

Hmmm, a message worthy of much meditation.

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Carol L. Skolnick - Mariel and Meditation
2005-10-06 09:29:16
Why on earth have WAG and Worthwhile magazine gone the sorry way of Oprah and the other star-kissers? Mariel Hemingway as an expert on the world of work? Puh-leeze. Yoga is wonderful, but let's hear from people using it in the trenches. Vapid celebrity interviews won't save the corporate soul; quite the opposite, it's a soul sell-out.
Linda McIsaac - Some Brains Are Wired to Multi
2005-10-06 10:05:24
Some brains multitask; some are sequential in how they process information. Every person has innate capabilities based on how they think. So I was annoyed with Ms. Hemingway?s comments.

Each of us needs to know more about who we are and our innate strengths. We don?t need people telling us how we should be. As a former School Superintendent, I call this the ?red check syndrome?. Our parents, teachers, etc all give us negative feedback. Let?s look at the positive.

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Chuck Collins - Yoga and Work
2005-10-06 10:48:32
I've been practicing yoga for three years on top of a stressful work and organizing job. I'm a serious multi-tasker. But I've found my yoga practice (2-3 times a week) has added strength and flexbility to both body and mind. You can't multitask in yoga and you really must stay present to your body or you get hurt. In work, I try not to multitask around people interactions (phone calls, meetings, etc). But there are some tasks that can be done simultaneously, just like breathing and holding a pose!
Robert Ortner - Mariel Hemingway and yoga
2005-10-06 12:08:07
I make my living teaching yoga and meditation as well as other movement arts. As a former Type A++ personality with a high stress job and lifeway I was blessed to have the train wreck of that life lead to my career change. My students often comment on how the different techniques there learning carry over into there busy lives, be it a corporate person or a stressed out Mom. Even though it may not eliminate the need to multitask, it helps them find the inner-calm in the midst of stressful situations and some have used the stillness and clairity to affect positive change in there lives. The more we get in touch with our stillness through these practices the more we can start to think more clearly about the other things we can begin to change i.e. the food we eat the quality of sleep etc. Many of these issues seem impossible when veiwed through the lens of an overstressed life. In the past I've taken issue with celebrities using yoga to get attention, but if someone starts a yoga or meditation practice because of that influence and they stick with it they will find come to find the joy and power of the practice for there own benefit. Om Shanti ! See you on the Mat
Sam - Celebs not Needed!
2005-10-06 15:15:06
You cannot be serious. Sorry, I know I rant and rave here about my dislike for celeb advice but here we go again. Yoga and Mariel Hemingway?? Quote “Mariel admitted that the world of work was often unhealthy??? oh, wouldn't it be great if we could all be like her, inherit some cash, make some made for TV lameo flicks and sit back in your yoga studio all day, not multitasking or worrying about work. Hmm, where exactly do we start here? Why is Hemingway where she is today? what has she proven and why do I need to listen to her lunatic advice? Worthwhile work is great, paychecks are nice, but the world of work is unhealthy, this unreal. I DON'T CARE WHAT THESE CELEBS HAVE TO SAY! Neither do 90% of my friends, family and business counterparts care. You need to change your mission statement if you are going to continue to go on and on about celebs. Here are some stories you are missing by the way. Next, can we get some parenting advice from Tom Cruise and Katie? Can you ask 50 Cents or P Diddy how to run a recording studio? Seriously, this is nonsense, I am canceling my subscription and taking Worthwhile magazine off my list of material to read. Good bye.
Luis - Carol and Sam need Yoga
2005-10-07 18:00:12
Sam and Carol express in their replies prejudisms, complex, and envy.

Dequalifying someone only because that person is considered a "celebrity" does not convince me. I was not convinced either when I read that 90% of Sam's friends think the same way he does.

Please, do a little bit of yoga, and find your better self.




David Batstone - Im not multi-tasking as I writ
2005-10-08 18:43:31
I really like what Chuck Collins has to say - multi-tasking is a skill that works better in some situations than it does in others. Too many of us try to multi-task around our kids, for instance, and it does not do any favors to our relationship with them. Personal relationships demand "presence." If you are like me, you struggle to balance when distributed energy works, and when it does not.

I note that several readers were annoyed with the celebrity status of Mariel. First off, why is it presumed that she is "fluff" and has no substance around yoga simply because she is an actress? Spend some time with Mariel, and I am confident that you would be as impressed as I am with her depth.

I do understand the impulse to be suspicious of public figures who are looking for the latest re-positioning of their star. Nevertheless, I do respect celebrities who use their platform to promote good causes. I am thrilled with the way Bono uses his public platform (did any of you see that fabulous Sunday NYTimes magazine piece on his behind-the-scenes statesmanship a couple of weeks ago?) to address poverty in Africa. He gets access and conveys message so effectively in part because of his celebrity status.
Teresa - Yoga and work
2005-10-10 17:05:55
I practice yoga several times a week alone and once weely in a group. As we meditate silently, we are connecting on a subconscious level. afterwards I find we are more intuitively connected. I work at a bookstore and many of my customers say they like that I seem calm. I can also multi-task and be aware of a co-worker's needs as well as my own task.
I t makes for excellent team-work
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